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As a wife and business owner I know just how hard it is to do all the things, and do them well. There is often a struggle or tug of war with excelling in your career, and excelling at home. There never seems to be enough time or enough energy, and lets be real it is usually bae who gets the end of the stick. I am here to tell you that such balance exists with the proper tools and know how. There is a way to stay true to the woman you are, with all your hopes and dreams and still have a banging relationship. In other words yes you can make partner at your firm, start your business and have your man chasing you around the house like he did in the beginning.

You are absolutely in the right place if you have been experiencing any of the following:

  • Having issues communicating your needs to him, or understanding his
  • Difficulty knowing what you need to do to make your life or love better
  • Trouble with submission
  • The bedroom is no longer popping
  • Feeling overwhelmed with trying to do EVERYTHING
  • Allowing your own history if hurt to interfere with how you operate as a wife
  • Feeling a lack of confidence now that your body is not what it used to be

I work best with women who are:

  • Goal oriented
  • Not afraid to change
  • Understand that they will not always agree with me (because who really wants to be told they are wrong)
  • Not easily offended

I am coming to you from a very real and transparent place, but it is more than advice because I have actually been trained to do just this. I have a Master's Degree in Counseling and have been in the helping profession for over 10 years. More importantly I know exactly what I did to make my first year of marriage hell, and the steps I took to make it our version of heaven. Happily ever after is different for everyone and I am just trying to get you to yours.


A Couple Reciepts


Do you ever wish you had that one person in your life you could go to for advice on it all… relationships, parenting, time management, life goals, organization?  For me that has been Mrs. Toya Carter. Seriously, she is like Yoda for today’s woman. (only in wisdom, not in appearance) She has been a trusted friend for many years and no matter what kind of emotional mess I come to her in, she always leaves me feeling better and like I have a plan to handle it. She has a way of taking things that seem out of control and putting them back in my control. She is also the one I can count on to kindly tell me what I need to hear, even if it isn’t what I want to hear. Thank Toya, you have made my life a better place.

-Erin Roberts, Social Worker


Toya has really helped me overcome the major challenges that were preventing me from having the relationship that I desired to have with my significant other. She helped to learn to communicate more effectively so that we fought less often and were able to actually "hear" each other. I also discovered how important it was for me to take time to care for myself so I'm not lost in the relationship. We're much happier now and I owe that all to Toya!

-Amanda Whetstone, Owner of